Troubled Marriages (Jump to Resources)
Is your marriage in trouble? Do you know someone whose marriage is in trouble, and you don't know what to do?
Don't despair. Everyone's marriage goes through rough patches from time to time. We do have some good news for you however, including:
First of all, you've come to the right spot! El Dorado County has plenty of resources available to help you rebuild your marriage. And this web site describes many of them! Some are described on this page. Others are described in various places throughout this web site. So, after you have looked through the listings on this page, go to the "Marriage Enrichment" section on this site and see what else is available.
Almost all marriages that go through rough times CAN BE REBUILT!! In fact, a recent study (published in July of 2002 by the Institute of American Values) found that "Two out of three unhappily married adults who avoided divorce or separation ended up happily married (to each other) five years later. However, just one out five of unhappy spouses who divorced or separated had happily remarried in the same time period".
So, hang in there, and do the work to put your marriage back together again.
And it will take work.
Hopefully both you and your spouse are willing to do the work to rebuild your marriage. If you both are willing, and both participate in the appropriate programs, the odds of your ending up happily married (to each other!) are extremely high. But what if you are the only one who wants to work on the marriage and your partner has given up? Is it hopeless? Not at all. All it means is that you will have to make the first move, be the first to change. A number of the programs described in this section can be implemented even if only one of the partners is motivated to save the marriage. Some of the programs were even designed with that thought in mind.
So, with all that as an introduction, let's take a look at some of the resources that are available to couples who are experiencing significant troubles in their marriages:
The information about Troubled Marriage Events is presented in the following format:
Name of Program Town offered Providing Organization | Days and Time Dates Cost | Contact Name Telephone Number Email Address |
Retrouvaille Christ the King Retreat Center Citrus Heights, CA | Friday - Sunday, call or email for times 7/9/10 - 7/11/10, Plus 6 post-weekend sessions Donation | Fred & Barbara Valles 737 Isabella Fairfield, CA 94533 800-283-5952 Sacramento@RetroCA.com |
Marriage Builders Episcopal Church of Our Saviour 2979 Coloma St Placerville | Homework based program. Guaranteed to save your marriage if the couple does all the assigned work. $400 | Fr. Craig Kuehn 530-622-2441 craig@oursaviourpv.org or see www.marriagebuilders.com |
ENRICH Episcopal Church of Our Saviour 2979 Coloma St Placerville | This is designed for couple and counselor (up to 6 sessions). Contact the person in the next column for an appointment. $200 per couple | Fr. Craig Kuehn 530-622-2441 craig@oursaviourpv.org |
ENRICH Pollock Pines Community Church 6361 Pony Express Pollack Pines | This is designed for couple and counselor (up to 6 sessions). Contact the person in the next column for an appointment. Contact the church. | Pastor David Morrison (530) 644-2133 office@fbcofpp.com |
ENRICH Green Valley Community Church 3500 Missouri Flat Rd Placerville | This is designed for couple and counselor (up to 6 sessions). Contact the person in the next column for an appointment. Contact the church. | Beth or Forest Mora 530.622.3231 info@gvcconline.net |
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